Tuesday, September 16, 2014

The Normal Heart: Movie About The Universal Language

The Normal Heart is a HBO movie. The trailer can particularly capture the attention of the LGBT community because it is about the struggle of gay men led by Ned Weeks played by Mark Ruffalo in the 1980s at the city of New York as they fight for awareness of a nameless disease which is known now as AIDS caused by HIV. The movie is directed by Ryan Murphy and based on the play written by Larry Kramer which is the right combination to keep a person in anticipation.

In the movie, Dr. Emma Brookner played by Julia Roberts called gay activist Ned Weeks to inform the gay community and eventually the government that there was a type of cancer that only infected gays and it was easily labelled as gay cancer. So Weeks started it in the best way he could do. He started with his friends. It was not an easy task because telling them this type of cancer, aside from it was still unconfirmed and without official research, this would entail prevention of the spreading of the disease by having to stop sex. The thought of abstinence among the gay men could not be embraced by them because they felt taking away from them to express their love was like snatching from them the only right they only held.

One of the steps taken by Weeks to inform the public about gay cancer was meeting Felix Turner immortalized by Matt Bomer who was a closeted gay and New York Times writer/ reporter. This wasn’t the first time they met each other but Weeks couldn’t remember their first rendezvous. It was only Turner who could remember it. The two were obviously attracted to each other. They fell in love, made plans together and eventually lived together. Unfortunately, throughout the movie Turner got infected by the disease but they stayed together. Turner’s body was getting worst but he was able to heal relationship of his partner’s relationship with his brother which was tainted at that time.

As one by one of their colleagues died including Turner, the New York gay community acknowledged and accepted that there must have been done about the illness. After having to fight tooth and nail, Weeks and the rest of the advocates were successful to catch the attention of the government to allot budget for the study and research on this gay cancer.

This masterpiece should not be only watched by every gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender but all of us, regardless of gender orientation/ preference, must enjoy this flick because it talked about the universal language that every human has spoken and understood. And that language is love.

It conveyed brotherly kind of love which considers the welfare of others. Thru the initiative of Dr. Brookner and fast acceptance of Weeks to awaken the consciousness of others about the life threatening disease, they took the first steps to stop infecting others and spreading it.

The movie also shows the truth about how romantic love must be. Weeks and Turner stayed true to their promises of love which unconditional. They love each without inhibitions and qualms. They remained on each other arms up to last breath.

Lastly, the normal heart touched the subject about love for oneself. Loving oneself first is essential to be able to love others. One must be healed and got over of his/her personal scars, accepted all his/her imperfection and maximized his/her strengths and potentials.


If the world would only speak the universal language, there would be no misunderstanding that leads to doubt and confusion. If each person comprehends one language, no discrimination and prejudice would happen. And if love could just rule the world, then this world is a better place to live in because each possesses normal heart.




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Wednesday, May 28, 2014

Love Letter to My Future Mahal (3)


Friday, April 11, 2014

Today's Music: Strangers by Seven Lions

I have featured non-EDM songs in my "Today's Music" posts because I have so many favorites and I don't want to flood my blogsite with mostly EDM. However, this track deserves to be featured. I like the lyrics and the beat. The song makes me want to sing, dance and indulge with my favorite drink. Enjoy!


Nothing more than strangers passing by on the street 
Memories are fading though it's only been a week 

All the little things are gone 

All the things we use to be 
Nobody can take us down cause 
There was only you and me 

And without you I can't be 
You're the universe to me 
You're the air in my lungs 
You're the fields where I run 
You're the sky where I'm floating 

It's you 
It's you 

Without you I can't be 
You're the universe to me 
You're the air in my lungs 
You're the fields where I run 
You're the sky where I'm floating 

It's you 
It's you 

Don't wanna be a stranger 
Wanna be the one you need 
I can be your world, 
Your life 
Your lover 
All for free 
All the little things come back 
The things we used to be 
Nobody can take us down 
There was only you and me 

And without you I can't be 
You're the universe to me 
You're the air in my lungs 
You're the fields where I run 

Wednesday, April 2, 2014

The Day My World Stood Still

Yes! You read it right. The title of this post is taken from a movie. It was not because the world has gone thru a disastrous time that made me to borrow the title. It was just a personal experience. That personal experience happened to be mine. My experience. My world.

Beginning of this year, almost all of us listed what we wanted to change, achieve and other matters we have called since time immemorial as New Year’s Resolution. Personally, I only kept a few important goals and resolutions. One of those resolutions I listed was TO BE IN A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP. For me to be always reminded and put me on “attack” mode, I set a deadline to make it happen. Without any consideration, March 31, 2014 was the deadline or 1st quarter of 2014.

If you feel the urgency, impossibility or simply find my resolution funny, please don’t judge me. Don’t laugh at me because I have had enough. Most of my friends, if not all, were bewildered with this and find it funny. They couldn’t help themselves to laugh.  My relationship status as single has never changed since birth. My heart has been a virgin for 25 years. I am just a poor boy waiting for someone to love me. 

In each day of the first quarter, I felt jittery as I faced it daily. Like most of us say that every day is another day, I held on to that promise but I couldn’t help myself to feel anxious about my goal. Time went by so fast that I couldn’t even cope up. I have this one particular person who I thought was the realization of my resolution but as of writing of this post, nothing is happening. I guess we are better off as friends. Nevertheless, first three months of this year went by so fast. It was so fast that it left me so way behind. 

March 31, 2014 passed and today is April 2, 2014. I am still single. I fail to realize my resolution.  I feel a little sad but I am laughing as I write this post. I am laughing because I have been crazy for three months.  What was I thinking for setting a deadline for my love life to prosper? LOL!

There are really some aspects that cannot be planned. One of those is the love aspect. Out of this crazy three-month experience, I have learned one lesson. True love transcends time. If I want to experience a love that lasts beyond lifetime, a love that’s forever, I should be patient. True love waits. It is more than enough to make my world stands still.


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